Nico Bolzico revealed that he used to get really jealous when his girlfriends talk to other guys before because he felt most times that all of them are trying to hit on her.
But Nico also admitted right away that he was wrong in so many levels to think that way.
After meeting his wife Solenn Heussaff, he realized that his relationship should be based on trust and respect.
The founder of the Bullied Husband’s Club shares on Instagram yet another #BolzTruth on how to make your relationship with your partner stronger every single day.
“As you all know my wife is very beautiful, probably the most beautiful girl in the world, that is why she has so many guys proposing to her all the time. The picture shows her reaction every time someone proposes. Look again, she is not showing the middle finger!”
“In line with that, I think it is a good opportunity to discuss how we feel when our Wifezillas talk to another guy. This is always a tricky situation and the way we react can be very critical for the future of our relationship and physical health.”
“Before meeting @Solenn, I used to get very jealous; I always assumed that any guy talking to my girlfriend was trying to hit on her, I didn’t believe in friendship between opposite sexes.”
“But I was wrong, 1 million times wrong! Thinking that way only leads to unfounded fights, drama and degradation of the relationship.”
“The truth (The #BolzTruth) is, if our relationship is based in trust and respect, we shouldn’t be worry about it, and we should be fine with our ladies talking to other guys; except if that other guy is @erwan, then you should be worry, too much sexyness there, irresistible for any human being.”
“I understand that we see our wives as the most beautiful and precious person in our life (if you think different, then go check rule #254 of the #BulliedHusbandClub hand book) and might be difficult seeing them talking to another guy; but it is ok, they should be able to have male friends, as we should be able to have female friends (If your #Wifezilla thinks differently then she is right, you shouldn’t be able to have female friends).”
“Summarizing, if you really love her, then: trust her, give her the freedom she deserves and let her be; this way you will see your relationship getting stronger every day!”